Have you ever held up a deck of playing cards and asked a friend to identify the cards as you quickly held them up one at a time? Doesn’t seem that hard, does it? Try it, not with a regular deck, but a doctored deck, where the normally red hearts are black, and the black diamonds are red. Every time I try it, I tell myself that I know the deck is doctored – of course I can correctly identify what I see! And every time I try it, I am humbled, because no matter what I tell myself, my brain sees the hearts as red, and the diamonds as black. (more…)
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What does it mean to be hospitable to God?
Anne Winchell Silver, in her book Trustworthy Connections : Interpersonal Issues in Spiritual Direction, quotes author Margaret Guenther, saying: what happens when we offer hospitality? We invite someone into a space that offers safety and shelter and put our own needs aside, as everything is focused on the comfort and refreshment of the guest.”
When I invite someone over to my home, hospitality is one of my main goals. I want my guest to feel completely at ease and at home, and not have any worries about anything – even about spilling something on the floor. If my guest is not at ease, then our conversation won’t be at ease, and we will miss out on the richness of a relationship that comes from the freedom to relax, be yourself, and fully engage with the other person. Read On …